Comments for Filtering The Static http://www.filteringthestatic.com Mon, 06 Sep 2010 06:01:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 Comment on First Little Post by Lana http://www.filteringthestatic.com/?p=3#comment-2 Lana Thu, 13 Nov 2008 01:42:28 +0000 http://www.filteringthestatic.com/?p=3#comment-2 Regarding your links: You should know that I can relate to a lot of what is on those pages. In that regard, we're not that different which I think is one of the things that attracted me to you in the first place. I've never been a very social person, I generally prefer time by myself at home and I've never handled stress well. Your "depth" of sensitivity may be deeper than mine, but it's still there nonetheless. All I ask is that you try to remember that. You seem to think I'm cold and unfeeling lately and that's so far from the truth, if you could take the time to open your eyes to it. If there is some other specific "game plan" I'm supposed to derive from this, you need to spell it out for me. I'm not that perceptive I guess and I can't read minds. Regarding your links:

You should know that I can relate to a lot of what is on those pages. In that regard, we’re not that different which I think is one of the things that attracted me to you in the first place. I’ve never been a very social person, I generally prefer time by myself at home and I’ve never handled stress well. Your “depth” of sensitivity may be deeper than mine, but it’s still there nonetheless. All I ask is that you try to remember that. You seem to think I’m cold and unfeeling lately and that’s so far from the truth, if you could take the time to open your eyes to it.

If there is some other specific “game plan” I’m supposed to derive from this, you need to spell it out for me. I’m not that perceptive I guess and I can’t read minds.

]]> Comment on Welcome to My Insanity by Lana http://www.filteringthestatic.com/?p=7#comment-3 Lana Wed, 12 Nov 2008 12:34:59 +0000 http://www.filteringthestatic.com/?p=7#comment-3 Since we're using this forum (I think) as a sort of marriage counseling (or perhaps it's exit marriage counseling), here goes: Speaking of smashed and stepped on feelings, you've become quite a master at that yourself lately so stop acting like you're only a victim here. And you seem to conveniently forget that I wasn't exactly showered with love as a child either, but I'm not using it as an excuse to hurt you. It seems to be that you've drawn the conclusion that since you had a shitty childhood, that gives you the right to be a bastard to me and labeling it as "My wife doesn't understand me." You don't want me to understand. Then you have the perfect excuse to act like this or leave, if you so desire, with a ready finger to point blame as to why our marriage fell apart. I don't know if you just started acting like an asshole to be closer to this jerk or have some sort of understanding with him, but stop acting like he somehow influenced this change in you when he's hardly said two words to you. YOU decided you were going to be more like him. And if he's such a bastard, one has to wonder why. Since you won't share that with me, I've drawn my own conclusions. You're tired of your life as it is now. You're tired of me and our marriage. You're tired of the children. This is just what you need to start new and fresh. So if that's where this is going, save us all the trouble and heartache and leave. Go find yourself someone else (like you've clearly been fantasizing about) and make some attempt to lessen the stomping you're doing on me. You owe me that much. Since we’re using this forum (I think) as a sort of marriage counseling (or perhaps it’s exit marriage counseling), here goes:

Speaking of smashed and stepped on feelings, you’ve become quite a master at that yourself lately so stop acting like you’re only a victim here. And you seem to conveniently forget that I wasn’t exactly showered with love as a child either, but I’m not using it as an excuse to hurt you. It seems to be that you’ve drawn the conclusion that since you had a shitty childhood, that gives you the right to be a bastard to me and labeling it as “My wife doesn’t understand me.” You don’t want me to understand. Then you have the perfect excuse to act like this or leave, if you so desire, with a ready finger to point blame as to why our marriage fell apart.

I don’t know if you just started acting like an asshole to be closer to this jerk or have some sort of understanding with him, but stop acting like he somehow influenced this change in you when he’s hardly said two words to you. YOU decided you were going to be more like him. And if he’s such a bastard, one has to wonder why. Since you won’t share that with me, I’ve drawn my own conclusions.

You’re tired of your life as it is now. You’re tired of me and our marriage. You’re tired of the children. This is just what you need to start new and fresh. So if that’s where this is going, save us all the trouble and heartache and leave. Go find yourself someone else (like you’ve clearly been fantasizing about) and make some attempt to lessen the stomping you’re doing on me. You owe me that much.

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